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As a result, I get asked a lot about how and where to meet women or men for dating. Therefore, there may be several best places to meet women and men - depending on exactly what you want. The most recent research on this topic was presented by Rosenfeld and Thomas (2012).
Their analysis was based on a national longitudinal survey of over four thousand adults, aged 18-59, called the "How Couples Meet and Stay Together" (HCMST) survey.
The most prized man in those days was strong and healthy, faithful, had a cave in a safe neighborhood, could protect her if needed and was great at hunting and gathering.
Cave woman wanted to be safe, have healthy children and plenty to eat. Things haven't changed much, except for now we also throw love and personality into the equation. A mutual decision for him to stay home with the kids is OK, but there's no bigger turn-off than a man who is unwilling to be a provider.
When Beth, one of my better researchers, said that men who were averse to commitment were drawn to her like bees to honey, I gave her a copy of the summary report of my research on “why men marry.” The report showed that the primary reason a man asks one woman to marry and not another is that each woman treats him differently.
After looking it over for about fifteen minutes, Beth returned the report to my desk and told me I was a male chauvinist. I was fond of Beth and trying to help her, so after I recovered, I asked her what made her think that.
Today's great guy is someone who is confident, kind, intelligent, consistent, commitment-oriented, secure, honest, healthy, smart, fun, funny, emotionally available, able to make you a priority, interested in life, and a hard-working provider. These guys, by my estimate, are less than 5 percent of the available male population. Personal and professional experience, and uh, statistics ... Although that's a long list, unfortunately it is not a complete list. But the good news is that although 95 percent of men are like the ones listed above, we still have that allusive 5 percent we can choose from. Most are in relationships, because they are commitment-oriented, but sometimes women stupidly kick them out, and occasionally, as horrible as it is, their partners pass away.
A bit more than 20% meet in bars or restaurants, with another 20% or so finding a partner online.Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Even with all of the technology connecting us together, finding and meeting people for dates, mates, hookups, and spouses can still be a challenge. Fortunately, the question has been thoroughly surveyed and studied by social science research.In fact, it can even make meeting someone more confusing! The answer, however, seems to change depending on your personal dating and relationship goals.On the surface, you'd think that finding a mutually rewarding and healthy relationship would be easy, but we all know it is not, and here's why: The pool in which you're fishing is shallow and poorly stocked, my friends. There are ways to locate a person who's a healthy fit - it takes time, patience, being deliberate and mindful in the process.We're looking for top quality fishing, and all we find are throwbacks ... First, what is a great guy, and what is a throwback? What a great guy is was defined by the cave woman millions of years ago.
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